Valentine’s Day Survival Guide: for the Single and the Situationship’d
Leila Campagna, BA International Relations
Valentine’s Day can feel bleak when you do not have a romantic partner, but it does not have to be. At its core, it is a celebration of love in all its forms. That includes romantic, platonic, familial, and self-love. If you are living young and free in London, you might as well take advantage of it. Instead of sitting at home binge-watching the BBC’s Pride and Prejudice for the hundredth time, here's a guide on how to spend your Valentine’s Day this year whether you are single, in a situationship, or happily coupled up.
Living in London means that you are spoiled for choice. Instead of thinking about the same old ex or situationship, get all dressed up and ready to party with your friends at the Deptford Northern Soul Club’s Valentine’s Ball, with tickets starting from £5. If you are after something more relaxed, go have a girls day crafting friendship bracelets and making new friends at the all-female Quti Club pop-up in Sevente Hoxton. If you are craving a sweet treat, the Biscuiteers workshop in Notting Hill lets you decorate biscuits and enjoy a wholesome day out, whether you go with friends, a partner, or on your own. If Valentine’s events are not your thing, London’s museums and galleries are always there for a culture-filled escape.
You do not even need to leave the house to have a good Valentine’s Day. Hosting a Galentine’s is a perfect excuse to gather your friends and spend the evening baking, playing games, and catching up. You can make a quick trip to Flying Tiger for mugs or canvases to paint together. Alternatively, you can have a cosy night in and watch a classic romance to get into the Valentine’s spirit. My personal recommendations are To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before, When Harry Met Sally, Bridget Jones’s Diary, Sense and Sensibility, and Dirty Dancing.
Situationships are a cruel consequence of modern dating, and being in one can feel especially difficult during this time of year. Rather than checking your phone every ten minutes hoping for a response, set clear expectations of what you want and whether the person who’s got you trapped is worth it. Surround yourself with those who don’t dim your spark.
For those of you who have a partner to spend this Valentine’s Day with, here's a quick gift guide. Experiences often feel more meaningful than material items, especially when they reflect something your partner genuinely enjoys. When it comes to flowers, paying attention to their favourite colours or blooms can feel far more thoughtful than defaulting to red roses. A handwritten card expressing love and gratitude is always appreciated. This holiday also celebrates love beyond romance, so showing appreciation for friends or family is just as valid.
Valentine’s Day does not need to look one way. Go out, stay in, see friends, or enjoy your own company. Love comes in many forms, and all of them are worth celebrating. Let’s love!
